Seek first to UNDERSTAND, then TO BE UNDERSTOOD...
"7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
-Stephen Covey
Are you a good listener?
If you want to be respected as a listener, you need to develop the skill of empathetic listening.
It means trying to understand people both intellectually and emotionally.
According to experts in communication:
-The words we say account for just 10% of our communication. Just 10%!!!
-The sounds account for 30%.
-Our body language for 60%!
That's why it's so important to not just listen to the words.
We should attend to the feeling, behavior and meaning behind them.